Both guys and girls look at things differently. Not only that but everyone, every individual has their own perspective on different situations. Just because you see something, it doesn’t mean that it’s real or that’s exactly whats happening. Your perspective could be really askewed. That experience you talk about, it might even do you more harm then good. If you were to go into a relationship pure and innocent then yes you might get hurt but that purity and innocence will probably help your relationship stay true and honest. People’s experience cloud their vision. It’s a small grain of doubt in a sea of trust. Imagine that that small grain is a virus. It will slowly infect the rest of you until you become obsessed with it. Although experience is useful. You must pay attention to your thoughts and think of your conclusions. You know who you are, you know what you stand for, and you know what you’ve done. Just don’t let that be your downfall.